The Russian Princess

Wow man, today was the first time a non-Christian asked me questions in this manner.
It started out with: "So you never kissed a girl?"
And I felt a little proud. Honestly, I mean, I am such a cute little naive gentleman.
But after that question, she asked me if I thought that having sex before marriage was bad.

"No? So you won't have sex before marriage?"
"That's crazy, it's going to be so awkward when you guys are having sex for the first time."
"Yeah, but you are going to be all old and shit."

"Do I think that you're egotistical? Not at all."
"You like being better than people at things? Well I'll always be better at sex than you."

"So wait, you wouldn't have sex even if a girl asked you?"
"Really...."

"I'm against skanks. I don't sleep with any guy."
"But shouldn't you see what you like? What if you guys marry, and realize that the sex was bad?"
"So you wouldn't mind?"

"So I've never asked you back, what is your purpose in life?"
-"You really want to know? Cause I don't think talking about this at work is the best place."
"Yeah, we should chill some time."

- - - - -

I can't be sure of what her intentions are, but I was on guard for any "Want to get laid?" signs.
But she's pretty.... imo, disorderly minded.
-"If you are trying to pay off your $2,000 credit card debt, don't you think that cutting down on drinking might help?"
"I actually don't drink that much, I smoke a lot of week."

Seriously? That's straight-up honesty. And also straight-up scary.
Also, she is starting to go to casino quite often. Really, not something you should do when you're broke.
Trying to ADOPT AN ELEPHANT?
"It's not that expensive. It's only $50 a month."
"NO, you should not be spending money you do not have."

But this made me wary the most.
"Yeah, I don't have any friends."
She openly admitted that.
1. That is sad.
2. Being able to say that, means that she is looking for friends.
Well, I can try helping.
She suggested me to try yoga, which I decided to try for the first time today.
Which btw, can be quite entertaining if you aren't into the usual "no pain no gain" sports.

And yeah, hopefully what I am doing, and what I will be doing will actually help her.
I'm trying not to "see if I can change her", because I honestly may not have the power to do so.
And even if I do, it might be detrimental instead of good.

It's also hard to hang out with her, because she's a vegan.
That means almost all food places are not acceptable.
And I am not going to go to a spa with her, nor go to a club to talk to her.
Well, I am really against it anyhow.
But yeah, maybe I can invite her to the youth group we have.
She'll probably be reluctant, but maybe her need for friends may be enough.